by Leah Steenstra
Feeling a little lost as to what the duties of a groom are? Below is a list of things you can do, with or without your bride, to ensure that the wedding goes smoothly.
12 to 18 Months Before
- Meet with both sets of parents to discuss the budget and style of the wedding.
- Go with your fiancée and book the reception site. Many sites fill up quickly so the earlier you pick a spot, the better!
- Reserve your ceremony location.
- Choose your groomsmen. Figure on one usher per 50 guests.
9 Months Before
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Decide on an Officiant.
- Write out a preliminary guest list. Be sure to get input from your parents.
- Register at one or several locations.
- Before selecting a caterer, go to a tasting.
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6 Months Before
- Choose and order your attire and your groomsmen’s outfits.
- Plan and book your honeymoon. Are you looking for fun, seclusion, fine dining? Contact a travel agent for help.
3 Months Before
- Finalize the guest list.
- Order your wedding bands and decide on inscriptions.
- Check state requirements concerning marriage license and required medical tests.
- Decide on living arrangements and order furnishings.
2 Months Before
- Buy wedding gifts for your bride and groomsmen.
- Get blood test for marriage license.
- Pick up your wedding rings, make sure they fit properly and check the inscription for accuracy.
2 Weeks Before
- Pick up your marriage license.
- Give ushers instructions for seating the guests at the ceremony, especially if there are guests requiring special assistance.
- Practice your toast to the bride’s family.
- Pick up your rental attire and remind your groomsmen to do the same.
- Arrange for someone to bring the gifts from the reception to your home.
- Get a haircut.
1 Day Before
- Attend the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner. Give gifts to groomsmen.
- Do something sweet for your bride. A short letter, a flower on her pillow…. she’s worked hard, show her how much you appreciate her.
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